Finding solutions to issues of sexual health is an important part of recovery for many ovarian cancer patients. For most ovarian cancer survivors, sex is both safe and can still be pleasurable after chemotherapeutic treatments, drug programs, and surgery. Even so, women often experience difficult psychological and physical challenges in their sex lives following their treatment. These issues are compounded by the embarrassment or stigma that can surround discussing these kinds of intimate problems with doctors.
Dr. Ritu Salani, director of the Division of Gynecologic Oncology at UCLA, explains the tricky dynamics of discussing post-treatment sex lives with patients. "Sexual health after cancer treatment is a very challenging issue," Dr. Salani says. "One, patients don't feel comfortable bringing it up with doctors. And quite frankly, doctors don't always bring it up with patients. So, it's a bit of a double-edged sword, but it's so important. And there may be multiple reasons why sexual dysfunction or sexual health may be impacted."
Read MoreDr. Salani suggests that getting back in touch with familiar sexual behaviors and practices can be a first step toward normalcy. "We encourage patients to engage back into their healthy sexual behaviors," she says. This reintroduction to familiar sexual practices can be the first step toward normalizing a sex life post-treatment, and can also be a good jumping off point for partners to discuss their feelings about the emotional difficulties of fighting ovarian cancer, both as a patient and as a partner. When issues arise, Dr. Salani advises bringing in outside help. "There are resources such as sexual health counseling, which may include both the patient and the partnerssometimes just talking about it and addressing it."
This kind of open candor and conversation can be awkward, but can also be the first step for an ovarian cancer survivor towards both a better sexual relationship with her partner and a better plan of action with her doctors. Dr. Salani believes that these conversations require work, engagement, and a whole lot of patience from all parties involvedsurvivors, their partners, and their doctors. She also believes that patience is the key to a successful sexual recovery. "I believe most patients probably are able to enjoy a healthy sexual life," Dr. Salani states. "But I think sometimes we have to help them to get there, and that can be a time-consuming and experience. But it's important that they talk to their doctors and other providers to help them get there."
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